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WEDDING by KRISS on 10 november 2015

Have you ever considered that maybe your wedding day is not the most beautiful day or at least romantic day in one’s life ? If you ever attended a wedding as a guest (I personally attended my first wedding for my own wedding) you can probably guess my previous statement is true.

With so much preparation, a few years on an average, so many guests (very few weddings manage under the 100 people threshold), so many details to think about, so much money invested and everything else superlative, a wedding is pretty much the definition of a day under pressure.

Nothing can go wrong, nothing is allowed to go wrong, everything has to go as planned because everything is planned and we would like you to believe, ladies and gentlemen, brides and grooms, that this day will be creating the most beautiful memories of your lifetime.

Is this a joke ? No seriously, you have the right to ask yourself that because this is what we are lead to learn, what we are fed from the youngest age, through Disney princesses and prince charming, movies, and so on and so forth.

A wedding is often referred to as THE MOST BEAUTIFUL DAY OF YOUR LIFE.

Well people, everything depends on your definition of beautiful and what you expect from life but imagine just for an instant if your wedding day was to reflect the rest of your wedded life.
Wow, harsh one.
In laws deciding whom to sit where, what to eat, the venues etc… And encouraging you to procreate to give them grandchildren.

I am sure you are starting to get my point ! Maybe your wedding is a great day but this is definitely not YOUR DAY.

So when is actually your day ? If you ask me and my wife, it is anytime, anywhere when our kids cut us some slack and we are free to enjoy a few minutes of silence.
A walk on a beach, a drink together, a breakfast, a banana, a bath in the sea.

But before that, if you had to create one day for your whole life to remember as the starting point of everything serious in a couple.
Maybe that day will be that of your proposal.

Think about it, a day you and only you decide to create, to initiate, on your own terms with your own rules, your own setting.
No family or friends to interfere or distract you from your ideas and ideals.
Your own pace, the effect of surprise, this is a day you can organise to remember your whole life.

In light of this little love life analysis, Kate and I have wondered very often why people did not hire photographers, paparazzi, to cover this special day without interfering.
To us it appears that if there was to be one memorable day to keep tracks of, and not for the traditional family photo album with the beautiful dress, it is that wedding proposal day.

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